We talked about competing in a recent session.
Not dominating.
Not being perfect.
Just competing.
I’ve been working with him since 2023.
Since I’ve known him, he has been dreaming of pitching in a college game.
For much of that time, his dream came with high expectations.
Self-criticism.
Overthinking.
A need to be perfect.
When one thing went wrong, everything sped up.
His mind.
His body.
The game.
Last season, he didn’t get an opportunity to pitch.
On Saturday, February 14, 2026, he made his first college appearance in one of the most challenging college baseball settings in America.
The Sunday before, we developed his plan to be ready.
Breathe.
Be present.
Attack.
It’s one thing to say that in a session.
It’s another thing to do it when the lights come on.
I was watching the game on ESPN’s stream.
I had no idea if he’d pitch.
He didn’t know I was watching.
Then there he was as the 7th inning started.
First batter? Walk.
Two years ago, that walk would have sent him into a spiral.
But now he looked different.
Instead, I watched him step behind the mound.
Deep breaths.
Slower tempo.
Intentional with the 20 seconds between pitches.
Three straight outs.
Strikeout to end the inning.
The difference wasn’t his stuff.
That’s always been there.
It was his emotional regulation.
He didn’t eliminate pressure.
He managed it.
If you’re an athlete or a sports parent, this is the part that matters:
Confidence isn’t the absence of nerves.
It’s the ability to recover after a mistake.
After the game, I texted him.
Two years ago, one walk would have owned him.
On Saturday, he owned the moment.
That inning wasn’t the breakthrough.
It was the evidence.
The breakthrough happened long before the lights came on.
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