“I Felt Like I Was Playing Like Someone Else”: Confidence in Young Athletes A basketball player I work with recently told me something that stuck with me. After a difficult tournament weekend in front of college coaches, he said: “I felt like I was playing like someone else.” Not because he forgot how to play. […]
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When Every Performance Becomes a Verdict From the outside, it looked like burnout. Low energy. Frustration. A game he used to love… starting to feel heavy. But that wasn’t the real problem. The real problem was how he was thinking. I was working with a college-bound high school athlete who had started to spiral. Not
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From the outside, it looked like he was freezing up. Taking strikes. Falling behind. Pressing late in the count. But that wasn’t the real problem. The real problem started before he ever stepped in the box. He was paying attention to the wrong thing. Let’s rewind. I sent a check-in email to a client whose
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Last week, one of the young athletes I work with said something that stuck with me. Not about his swing. Not about a tournament. About his dad. He said: “Sometimes my dad doesn’t even say anything. He just gives me the eyes.” If you’ve spent time around youth sports, you know the look. The one
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A first-year college baseball player said something to me this week that stopped me. “I’m actually having more fun now… and I’m not even playing.” That wasn’t the case a month ago when we first started working together. A few weeks earlier, baseball had started to feel heavy. So heavy that it led to a
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We talked about competing in a recent session. Not dominating. Not being perfect. Just competing. I’ve been working with him since 2023. Since I’ve known him, he has been dreaming of pitching in a college game. For much of that time, his dream came with high expectations. Self-criticism. Overthinking. A need to be perfect. When
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“Find someone who knows what they’re talking about and cares about what they do.” That’s what the father of a college baseball player said to me on Thursday morning. The implication was that I check those boxes, which is humbling — especially coming from someone who runs a sports academy and coaches for a living.
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I went to a youth piano recital today. One of my best friends invited me to watch his two daughters, 12 and 8, perform. The recital was held in a quaint but professional space inside a performing arts center in Jersey City, just in the shadows of Manhattan. They faced a single grand piano under
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What Miley Cyrus Teaches Us About Performance Routines for Athletes I never expected Miley Cyrus to give me material for a mental performance lesson… but here we are. If you listen to “Party in the U.S.A.,” you hear a surprisingly relatable story about pressure, uncertainty, and how the right routine can pull you out of
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Why Mental Training for Athletes Is Never “One and Done” “I’m in my car because I can’t even be in my house. I live with my teammates.” It was as if my client “Jessica” was hiding out in shame. Jessica was ready to meet again after almost a year away from mental performance coaching. Our
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